Zhenyan expresses concern about the younger generation’s disregard for proper dining etiquette. They hastily eat without patience or consideration, leading to chaos at the table. Zhenyan believes that dining reflects character and tradition, lamenting the loss of these values. She yearns for the mindful approach to meals they once shared.
The discussion around Li Zhenyan’s unbound feet highlights the complexities of women’s experiences in Ming China. Footbinding, though prevalent, was not universal and varied by region and circumstance. Zhenyan’s upbringing emphasized education and practicality over societal norms, reflecting the diverse narratives of women’s history beyond a singular interpretation.
As the new year approaches, families rush to complete unfinished tasks, creating a lively atmosphere. Zhenyan advises moderation in preparations, emphasizing the importance of self-care over perfection. Debts should be settled and relayed gentle communication to foster harmony. Intentional cleaning leads to mental clarity, setting the stage for a strong start to the year.
In the reflection on two river cities, Bruges and Luzhou, the author introduces Li Zhenyan, a pragmatic woman of Ming-dynasty China known for her grounding presence and expertise in health and balance. Through her story, the piece explores women’s essential yet often unnoticed contributions to society and community stability.