The author reflects on the traditional Chinese greeting gesture, the gongshou salute, which consists of a slight head dip with hands clasped. Unlike the formalized bowing in Japanese customs, this gesture is understated and rooted in Chinese etiquette. The author shares personal experiences of muscle memory from living in Taiwan, showing how culture can influence behavior.
The discussion around Li Zhenyan’s unbound feet highlights the complexities of women’s experiences in Ming China. Footbinding, though prevalent, was not universal and varied by region and circumstance. Zhenyan’s upbringing emphasized education and practicality over societal norms, reflecting the diverse narratives of women’s history beyond a singular interpretation.
As the new year approaches, families rush to complete unfinished tasks, creating a lively atmosphere. Zhenyan advises moderation in preparations, emphasizing the importance of self-care over perfection. Debts should be settled and relayed gentle communication to foster harmony. Intentional cleaning leads to mental clarity, setting the stage for a strong start to the year.