Zhenyan expresses concern about the younger generation’s disregard for proper dining etiquette. They hastily eat without patience or consideration, leading to chaos at the table. Zhenyan believes that dining reflects character and tradition, lamenting the loss of these values. She yearns for the mindful approach to meals they once shared.
Zhenyan reflects on an encounter with the esteemed playwright, Tang Xianzu, during a visit to Madam Xu. As she treated Madam Xu’s ailments, they discussed the connection between emotions and physical health. Zhenyan realizes the distinct perspectives of men and women regarding feelings and survival, valuing the importance of being heard.
In a letter to her sister Little Plum, Zhenyan reflects on her life as a healer and widow. She describes her daily routine, emphasizing the blend of healing, organization, and independence. Zhenyan stresses the importance of boundaries and the balance between compassion and practicality, urging her sister to learn similar life skills and resilience.